pratikshyag2025
02 Sep 2025
I visited Leeds Castle recently as part of a week-long trip where I toured six different castles. Leeds was the sixth one, and unfortunately, it left me with the worst impression.
At every other castle, I was able to enjoy my visit without issue. I wore a dress to each one, and not a single staff member questioned me. However, at Leeds Castle, within just five minutes of arriving, I was approached and challenged twice in an unnecessarily confrontational way.
The first staff member stopped me and asked if I was there for a professional photoshoot, stating that I was “clearly dressed for one” and that I could be “a distraction for other visitors.” I explained that I was simply there with my family – my sister, my father, and my 11-year-old child – and that I would only be taking photos on my iPhone. Hardly the setup for a professional shoot. I was then told that I “might be stopped again” throughout the castle. I brushed it off, determined to enjoy the day.
Less than 30 seconds later, however, another staff member approached me in a far more aggressive manner. With raised voice, wide eyes, arms gesturing, and even flared nostrils, they repeated the same questions but escalated things further by warning me that if I used a tripod, I would be “kicked out.” Not simply asked to leave – they emphasized the words “KICKED OUT OF THE PREMISES” at least three times in a tone that was genuinely intimidating.
I want to stress: it’s not just what was said, but how it was said. The tone and body language of the staff member were unprofessional, unnecessarily hostile, and frankly, frightening. I have visited numerous castles and heritage sites, and I always respect the rules around photography. I clearly explained that I was there for a family day out, not a photoshoot, and yet I was treated as if I was breaking rules simply because of my clothing choice.
After paying a significant amount for tickets, plus spending in the gift shop and restaurant, my experience was overshadowed by this treatment. Wearing a dress to visit a castle should not feel like committing a crime. Sadly, the aggressive approach and poor attitude of the staff let down what should have been a memorable and enjoyable day with my family.
My family of 6 came to visit Leeds castle. We’d been wanting to visit for a long time. We decided to visit on an event day, but wouldn’t do this again as it was far too busy everywhere and took the enjoyment away from the day. The castle was great, and beautiful grounds. Just too busy everywhere.